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In Loving Memory of Elizabeth A. Foster (1943-2018)

Posted By Administration, Monday, March 12, 2018

The Rev. Elizabeth “Betty” Ann Foster died on March 3, 2018 at the age of 74.

Betty was born on March 25, 1943 in Tarrytown, NY to James G. and Elizabeth M. (Heeney) Calyer. In 1965 she earned a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science from Northeastern University. There Betty met her husband Robert W. Foster and they had three children together: John, Heather, and Robert. Betty then earned a Master of Arts in Far East Studies from the University of Michigan in 1967 and she worked for many years as a teacher and a childbirth educator. After discerning her call to ministry, Betty earned her Master of Divinity from Harvard Divinity School in 1987.

Rev. Foster was ordained on June 14, 1987 by the First Religious Society in Carlisle, MA. She was pursuing a doctorate in pastoral psychology from Andover Newton Theological School when she suffered a severe stroke. Despite strenuous efforts at physical and speech therapy, she was not to walk again, and she regained only a little of her ability to speak. But Betty’s intellect and passion remained, and in 1998 she began serving as Ministerial Associate at the UU Congregation in Milford, NH. Rev. Foster contributed to worship services and other celebrations, and she wrote many reflections and meditations. When Rev. Foster moved to Maine in 2013 after the death of her husband, UUCM honored her as their Ministerial Associate Emerita.

In their tribute to Betty’s life, her family wrote:

Betty will be remembered as an inspirational, supportive, caring, and fun-loving individual; someone who taught you to slow down and enjoy life. She loved to throw a dinner party, spoil her grandkids and cheer on the Patriots and Red Sox. She would feed you even if you weren't hungry . . . Inspired by Dr. Who, she tested the limits of space and time by filling her refrigerator with more than it could ever possibly hold.

And Rev. Karen Foley offered this fond remembrance of Betty:

Betty and I were at Harvard Divinity School together and spent many lunch hours in conversation about what we were learning, about being students in our forties, the impacts on our families, and our hopes for our ministries. I recall her telling me how the spiritual impact of her work in childbirth coaching led her into ministry. She later refused to be incapacitated by her stroke and purposefully went forward doing and being all she could do and be. She kept growing, kept learning, kept offering ministry all about her, whether in a church setting or her daily life. She told me, about how she kept going forward and expanding her life, "It's all spiritual." It was and is. I'm blessed to have known Betty.

Betty is survived by her children John Foster (Linda Jones), Heather Owens (Eddie), and Robert Foster; her grandchildren Padraic, Aidan, and Emma Owens; her sisters Jeanne Mancinelli and Virginia Calyer; and her many nieces, nephews, and countless friends. She was predeceased by her husband Robert W. Foster and her brother James G. Calyer.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Gorham House Activity Fund, 50 New Portland Rd, Gorham, ME 04038.

A memorial service was held on March 19, 2018 at the Gorham House, 50 New Portland Rd, Gorham, ME 04038. Later in the spring, a celebration of Betty’s life will also be held at UUCM, 20 Elm St, Milford, NH 03055.

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In Loving Memory of Alan G. Deale (1927 - 2018)

Posted By Administration, Wednesday, February 28, 2018
Updated: Wednesday, February 28, 2018

The Rev. Dr. Alan Glengyle Deale, died on January 29, 2018 at the age of 90.


 Alan was born on August 7, 1927 in Hanover, NH to the Rev. Jessie Deale and the Rev. D. G. Deale. He served in the U.S. Navy from 1945-1947 as a Pharmacist’s Mate, and in the Air Force in 1950 as an Administrative Officer. Alan graduated from the University of New Hampshire in 1950 with a BA in English, then earned a Bachelor- and a Master of Sacred Theology from Harvard Divinity School in 1953 and 1954 (respectively). He then spent a year at Oxford, where he met the mother of his children Cynthia, Pat, and Daniel: the late Dr. Shirley Patterson. Rev. Dr. Deale was later awarded a Doctor of Divinity from Meadville Lombard Theological School in 1979.

Rev. Dr. Deale was ordained by the First Parish Unitarian of Hubbardston, MA on May 29, 1953, where American Unitarian Association President Frederick May Eliot offered the ordination sermon; his parents, both ministers themselves, also participated in the service. He served the Hubbardston church until 1954, then in 1955 he was called to the UU Society of Fairhaven, MA. Rev. Dr. Deale was then called to The UU Church in Rockford, IL, where he served until 1970. In that year he was called to the First Unitarian Church of Portland, OR. While ministering in Portland, Rev. Dr. Deale led the church in purchasing more of the surrounding property, enabling it to remain significant in the life of the city. Alan was also a great supporter of the parish internship program; he was proud that sixteen ministers started their careers as his intern. He served the Portland church for 21 loving years, until his retirement in 1991, at which time the congregation elected Rev. Dr. Deale their Minister Emeritus.   

In addition to his parish ministry, Rev. Dr. Deale served many denominational boards and committees. Alan was President of the Channing Conference of Unitarian Churches (now part of the UUA’s New England Region); and while in Illinois he served on the board of the Western Unitarian Conference and then the Midwestern UU Conference (now part of the MidAmerica Region). He also served on the board of Beacon Press and was the founding Editor of The Journal of the Liberal Ministry. Rev. Dr. Deale was Editor of the UU Ministers’ Association newsletter, Chair of the UUMA’s Nominating Committee, and President of the UUMA’s Pacific Northwest Chapter. And Alan served on the UUA’s Ministerial Fellowship Committee, including as Chair.  

During the Civil Rights Era, Alan and two others formed the War on Poverty Committee for Winnebago County—the second-largest county in Illinois. He served as its Chair and managed to fund significant civic projects in Rockford. Rev. Dr. Deale was at the 1963 March on Washington, and stood close enough to the front platform that he could hear “I Have a Dream” directly. He also joined the 1965 Selma Marches. Alan was also a passionate advocate for the right to die with dignity; he was instrumental in the Oregon Right to Die Society, which was ultimately successful in reforming the state’s laws. When he was predeceased by his second and third wives, the Rev. Marguerite Hessler-Deale and Dr. Leola Lorenzen (mother of Lara), Alan helped enable each of them fulfil their wishes to die at home.  

In his spare time, Alan held many interests including planes, boats, and cars, as well as travel, art, and the theology of many faith traditions. Though an only child, he found himself at the center of a large family, and was well-loved by six children, their partners, and nine grandchildren. He loved to take the children out in his boats for rides and waterskiing, and he followed all their educations with keen interest—often sending them books from his vast collection.  

His widow Kathleen Hunter, mother of Deirdre and Charles, remembers:

[Alan] jokingly said of himself, “I was important in my time.” He had heard this phrase used at an installation of a minister when a list of previous ministers was intoned. The congregation had many worthies and also those unknown. Of these the reader said, “and he was important in his time.”  

Alan is survived by his wife Kathleen Hunter; his children Dr. Cynthia Deale, Alan “Pat” Patterson Deale, and Daniel Deale; his stepchildren Lara Payne, Deirdre McKay, and Charles Corlett; and his nine grandchildren. He was predeceased by his former wife Dr. Shirley Patterson Deale, the late Rev. Marguerite Hessler-Deale, and the late Dr. Leola Lorenzen.  

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Unitarian Universalist Church, 4848 Turner St, Rockford, IL 61107, USA.   A memorial service was held on Saturday, February 24, 2018 at the Unitarian Universalist Church in Rockford, IL.   Notes of condolence may be sent to Kathleen Hunter at 55 Crystal Ave PMB 248, Derry, NH 03038, USA.

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In Loving Memory of Robert H. MacPherson

Posted By Administration, Wednesday, February 21, 2018


The Rev. Dr. Robert “Bob” Harold MacPherson died on January 20, 2018 at the age of 92.


Bob was born on February 9, 1925 in Boston, MA to Harold S. MacPherson and Doris Hicks MacPherson. He earned a Bachelor of Arts in History from Massachusetts’s Tufts University in 1947, then earned his Bachelor of Sacred Theology from Tufts’s Crane Theological Seminary in 1948. Bob then married his beloved wife Ann Marie Haggerty MacPherson in 1949. And in 1965 and 1968 (respectively) he earned a Master’s degree and then a PhD from New York’s Syracuse University, where he specialized in speech pathology.


Rev. Dr. MacPherson was ordained on June 27, 1948 by Massachusetts’s West Somerville Universalist Church; in that same period, he entered fellowship as a Unitarian minister. Rev. Dr. MacPherson was first called to serve the First Universalist Church of Auburn, ME from 1954 to 1962. He was then called to the First Universalist Church of North Attleboro, MA for two years; then in 1963 he was called to the First Universalist Society of Central Square, NY, where he served until 1966. Rev. Dr. MacPherson then had a long career as a medical professional, though he always remained in Associate Fellowship with the UUA. He was Chief of Audiology and Speech Pathology Service at the VA Medical Center in Center-Asheville, NC from 1970 until his retirement in 1993.


While working in medicine, Rev. Dr. MacPherson would occasionally preach and conduct special services at UU churches, including at Clemson, SC; Oak Ridge, TN; St. Petersburg, Tarpon Springs, and Tampa, FL; and Greensboro, Hendersonville, and Asheville, NC. At Asheville Bob was also active for a time on the church’s Social Responsibility Committee. He also served on the Continental Advisory Committee for the UUA’s Church of the Larger Fellowship. And Bob would regularly attend events of the UUA’s Thomas Jefferson District (now part of the Southern Region), as well as the Southeast UU Summer and Winter Institutes.


In his spare time, Bob was a member of Western Carolinians for Criminal Justice, Planned Parenthood, and Pisgah Legal Services. He was active in the Asheville Community Theater, including as an actor and a singer—noted for his ease in projecting his voice to the very back of the room. He was also heavily involved with Asheville Chamber Music, which would often perform at the UU Congregation of Asheville. Bob also enjoyed gardening, fishing, singing, toy-mending, and travelling the world with his wife Ann: The pair visited such places as Japan, South Korea, Thailand, Russia, Germany, Austria, and the Galapagos Islands. And Bob treasured time spent with his family.


He is survived by his son Ralph MacPherson, five grandchildren, three great-grandchildren, and his brother David MacPherson. He was predeceased by his wife Ann Marie Haggerty MacPherson and his son Robert Owen MacPherson.


A memorial service was held on January 29, 2018 at the UU Congregation of Asheville, 1 Edwin Pl, Asheville, NC 28801. Notes of condolence may be sent to Ralph MacPherson at 99 Garren Creek Rd, Fairview, NC 28730.

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In Loving Memory of Sarah Barber-Braun (1925 - 2017)

Posted By Administration, Thursday, February 8, 2018

The Rev. Sarah Barber-Braun died on December 17, 2017 at the age of 92.


Sarah was born on October 23, 1925 to Dallas Dayton Lore McGrew and Elizabeth Barber McGrew. Born in Tokyo, Japan while her architect father worked there, Sarah grew up in Maryland. She earned her BA in Political Theory and Government from Massachusetts’s Radcliffe College in 1947, then worked for a time as a primary and pre-school teacher. After moving to Missoula, MT and adopting her three children—Paula, Julia, and Daniel—Sarah worked for sixteen years as a self-employed jeweler. A lifelong learner, Sarah also participated in graduate coursework in Education, Art, Political Theory, Women’s Studies, and American Studies. After discovering Unitarian Universalism and heeding a call toward ministry, Sarah earned her Master of Divinity from California’s Starr King School for the Ministry in 1984.  

Rev. Barber-Braun was ordained on February 17, 1985 by the First Unitarian Church of Oakland, CA. She first served as an extension minister at the UU Congregation of Erie, PA from 1986 to 1989. Rev. Barber-Braun then served for a year as interim minister at Des Moines, WA’s Saltwater UU Church, before ministering to the First Universalist Society in New Haven, CT 1994 to 1996. Sarah then carried out another interim ministry at the Mattatuck UU Society in Woodbury, CT until 1997. In that year she began serving the First Universalist Church of Southold, NY, ministering there until her retirement in 2002.  

Rev. Barber-Braun dedicated much service to her denomination, including serving on the board of the UUA’s Pacific Central District (now part of the Pacific Western Region) from 1979 to 1983. Sarah was also an active member of the UU Ministers’ Association, and she served as President of the Ohio-Meadville Chapter in 1989. Rev. Barber-Braun was also a founding member of the UU Women’s Heritage Society and served as Chair of its Continental Council. Sarah further served as Chair of UU Collegium’s Feminisms Section. And she was a regular presenter on women’s history at UU General Assembly.  

Sarah was a passionate participant in the politics of her community, and she advocated for women’s reproductive rights through her work with Planned Parenthood and the Religious Coalition for Reproductive Choice. She also enjoyed gardening, and always held a deep love for dance—especially contra dancing. Finally, Sarah devoted decades of independent scholarship to the life and work of nineteenth-century Universalist minister Phebe Ann Coffin Hanaford, even gaining access to papers held by Hanaford’s great-great-granddaughters. Sarah wrote numerous essays, articles, and reflective pieces on her beloved subject, and was a primary contributor to Hanford’s first full-length biography: A Mighty Social Force by Loretta Cody (2009).  

In her essay “Looking for Julia, Finding Phebe” (Critical Mass, Spring 1989), Rev. Barber-Braun offered these words to conclude the piece—words that seem a fitting tribute to Sarah’s own vital work:   We are all connected, women in the ordained ministry and lay women who fought for civil rights and women who struggled, unrecorded, in their homes. But so many of their stories have been forgotten by their children, never told to their grandchildren. It is up to us to look for them, to discover their stories, and to recover our own history.  

Sarah is survived by her children Paula Braun, Julia Roth, and Daniel Braun; her grandchildren Tegan Spangrude, Carl Spangrude, David Braun, and Andrea Braun; and her brother John McGrew (Wendy). She was predeceased by her son Benjamin Braun.   In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Unity Church – Unitarian, 733 Portland Ave, St Paul, MN 55104. 

A celebration of life was held on August 12, 2017 with Rev. Barber-Braun in attendance.    Notes of condolence may be sent to Julia Roth at 1963 Split Mountain, Canyon Lake, TX 78133.

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In Loving Memory of Berkley L. Moore (1932 - 2018)

Posted By Administration, Wednesday, February 7, 2018

The Rev. Berkley Leroy Moore, died on January 4, 2018 at the age of 85.

Berkley was born on August 7, 1932 in Youngstown, OH to James Berkley Moore and Lillian V.B. Moore (née Lundgren). He graduated from Pennsylvania’s Grove City College in 1954 with a Bachelor of Science. Berkley worked for three years as a chemical engineering researcher before attending Massachusetts’s Harvard Divinity School, where he earned his Bachelor of Sacred Theology in 1960.  

Rev. Moore was ordained by the now-defunct All Souls Unitarian Church in Windsor, VT on April 14, 1961; given the UU consolidation in May of that year, Berkley appears to have been the last ordained Unitarian minister. He simultaneously served All Souls and the First Universalist Church of Hartland, VT until 1965. In that year Rev. Moore was called to serve two congregations in Minnesota: the First Unitarian Church in Virginia (1965 – 1968) and the UU Congregation of Duluth (1965 – 1969). After moving to Springfield, IL in 1970 Berkley began working as an engineer for the state’s Environmental Protection Agency. At that time Rev. Moore began serving the Abraham Lincoln UU Congregation as their unofficial part-time minister—performing wedding and memorial services—until the church called a settled minister in 1981. Over the years Berkley continued to serve the Springfield church in various capacities, and was also a supply preacher to many congregations in central Illinois. In 1995, after 25 years of membership and service, the Abraham Lincoln UU Congregation named Rev. Moore their Minister Emeritus.  

In addition to his parish ministry, Rev. Moore served the Abraham Lincoln UU Congregation for a time as their Board President and the Chair of their Program Committee. Berkley also taught adult religious education classes at the congregation. He was also a member of the Prairie Group of ministers for many years.  

Berkley was known for his scholarly curiosity and tremendous knowledge across a vast range of subjects, from history to genetics to religion and particularly music, with deep interest in classical, jazz and traditional folk music. He authored several hymns himself, including lyrics for “Let Love Continue Long” in the UU hymnal How Can We Keep from Singing? (1976) and the tune for “Kelham” in Missouri Harmony (2005). Rev Moore was also an active member of the Illinois shape note singing community, and being a virtual expert on folk hymns he shared his enthusiasm and knowledge on this subject with many in Illinois and across the country. Additionally, Berkley served as a delegate for Jimmy Carter at the 1976 Democratic National Convention. And Berkley was a dedicated father, and loved traveling to many destinations around the world with his sons.  

He is survived by his sons James B. Moore and Erik P. Moore (Tom Liberty); his former wife Kathryn VanBuskirk (née Holland), mother of James and Erik; his former wife and longtime friend Barbara Moore; his brother-in-law David Culp; and his nieces and nephews Kenneth Culp, Lillian Williamson (Jon), and Carl Culp (Tina). Berkley was predeceased by his sister Hildalee Culp.  

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the  UU Service Committee. Donations by mail can be sent to UUSC, PO Box 808, Newark, NJ 07101-0808.   A celebration of life will be held at 2pm on Saturday, February 10, 2018 at the Abraham Lincoln UU Congregation, 745 Woodside Rd, Springfield, IL 62711.   

Notes of condolence can be sent to the Moore family at

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In Loving Memory of Peter Lee Scott (1933-2017)

Posted By Administration, Tuesday, January 30, 2018

The Rev. Dr. Peter Lee Scott died on December 20, 2017 at the age of 84.


Peter was born on November 6, 1933 in Peoria, IL to Mary Slaughter Scott and the Rev. Clinton Lee Scott. He graduated from Canton, NY’s St. Lawrence University in 1955 with a Bachelor of Divinity and Certification in Religious Education. In 1955 he married the late Dorothy Ann Dutton, and they raised three children together: Michael, Rebecca, and Steven. Peter earned his Master of Divinity from St. Lawrence in 1957, and would later receive a Master of Arts in Religious Education from Connecticut’s Hartford Seminary Foundation (1962) and a Doctor of Divinity from Kentucky’s Lexington Theological Seminary (1972).


The Rev. Dr. Scott was ordained a Universalist minister on September 8, 1957 at the First Universalist Society in New Haven, CT, where he also carried out his first parish ministry. Peter was then called to serve Massachusetts’s Melrose UU Church from 1962 to 1967. In that year the Rev. Dr. Scott began ministering to the UU Church of Lexington, KY, where he would serve for seven years. Then Peter served three congregations in Wisconsin: First Universalist Unitarian Church of Wausau (1974 – 1978), the UU Fellowship in Marshfield (1978 – 1980), and the Fox Valley UU Fellowship (1979 – 1983). Peter married Faith Anne Grover in 1983 and he became the stepfather of Robert, Elizabeth, and Margaret. Peter then simultaneously served two churches in Virginia: the Unitarian Church of Norfolk—where Faith served as Director of Religious Education—and Newport News’s UU Fellowship of the Peninsula. The Rev. Dr. Scott was then called to the First Universalist Church of Southold, NY from 1987 to 1996, after which he served for one year as Interim minister at the UU Congregation of York, PA. Finally, the Rev. Dr. Scott was called to St. Paul Universalist Church in Little Falls, NY, where Faith was ordained and where the couple served as co-ministers. At this time Peter was also a supply preacher at the First Universalist Society in Salisbury Center, NY. In 1999 both Peter and Faith retired, but Peter continued to preach monthly at Salisbury Center and occasionally at St. Paul's in Little Falls; in 2013, he was elected Minister Emeritus by both congregations.


Peter carried out an array of service on behalf of the denomination. He maintained a near life-long relationship with Saco, ME’s Ferry Beach Park Association; he staffed youth camps there from 1958 to 1976, served on the Planning Committee, offered workshops, and co-authored a history of Ferry Beach’s first century. The Rev. Dr. Scott also held positions on a vast number of denominational boards and committees, including but not nearly limited to: the UUA Pamphlet Committee (1961 – 1967), Trustee and Building Committee of Lexington, KY’s Emerson Center (1967 – 1974), UUA’s Central Midwest District Board (1975 – 1981), and the St. Lawrence Foundation for Theological Education (President 1989 – 1994).


Peter was a passionate player, teacher and advocate of table tennis, which he played into his late 60s. He also played piano and guitar and wrote music, and he sang in school, college, church, and community choirs. Peter read, lectured, and wrote extensively about Universalist, Unitarian, and Unitarian Universalist history—including his unfinished work An American Courtship which traced the various attempts at uniting the Universalists and Unitarians prior to the 1961 consolidation. He loved model railroading and created several layouts with his children. He was also a (very cautious) sailor, claiming that his sailboat's name "Chicken of the Sea" described himself as skipper. Following in the footsteps of his minister father, Peter regularly celebrated Groundhog Day: developing sermons, liturgies, and carols for that holy day midway between the winter Solstice and the spring Equinox.  


As Peter’s beloved Faith noted after his death: “Peter much disliked the closing in of increasing darkness and shortening days between the autumn Equinox and winter Solstice.  He died on December 20, the day marking the end of the darkness and the return of the light.”


He is survived by his wife and colleague the Rev. Dr. Faith Grover Scott; children and stepchildren Michael (Kelly), Rebecca, Robert, Steven (Lori), Elizabeth, and Margaret (David); grandchildren and step-grandchildren Shawn, Rhiannon, Courtney, Erin, Shaina, Lauren, Shannon, Raven, Astrid, and Augustus; and great-grandchildren Cody, Raene, Talon, and Caylynn.


In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Peter Lee Scott Memorial Fund at St. Paul's Universalist Church, 565 Albany St, Little Falls, NY 13365.


A memorial service will be held at 2pm on Saturday, April 14, 2018 at Acacia Village, 2160 Bleecker Street, Utica NY 13501.


Notes of condolence may be sent to the Rev. Dr. Faith Scott at B-148, Acacia Village, 2160 Bleecker St, Utica, NY 13501; and at

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In Loving Memory of Bets Weinecke (1936 - 2017)

Posted By Administration, Tuesday, January 30, 2018

The Rev. Elizabeth “Bets” Wienecke died on December 28, 2017 at the age of 81.


Bets was born on December 22, 1936 in Evanston, IL to Eliza Rittenhouse Wienecke and Robert Henry Wienecke. She married William Gourley Jr. in 1955, and they had three children together: Ann Michelle (deceased,) William, and Elizabeth. Bets graduated from the University of California, Santa Barbara in 1975 with a Bachelor of Arts in Law and Society; and in 1980 she earned a Master of Arts in Educational Psychology Counseling from California State University, Northridge. She worked for many years as an office manager, a Volunteer Coordinator for the Santa Paula, CA School District, and as Executive Director of the Santa Paula Youth Employment Service. During this time, she married the love of her life, Peter Haslund, becoming stepmother to Melitta and Christina. Inspired by her mentor the Rev. Marjorie N. Leaming, Bets felt a call toward ministry and pursued fellowship with the UUA, earning her Master of Divinity from California’s Claremont School of Theology in 1985.


Rev. Wienecke was ordained on May 25, 1986 by the Unitarian Society of Santa Barbara, CA. In 1987, she began serving as the Extension Minister to the Live Oak UU Congregation of Goleta, CA, and in 1990 the congregation called Rev. Wienecke as their settled minister. Bets served Live Oak with passion and dedication for eighteen years, and upon her retirement in 2004 the congregation honored Rev. Wienecke as their Minister Emerita.

Prior to her ordination, Bets served as the Secretary for the UU Church in Santa Paula, CA’s board of trustees, and later as Board President. She also performed much service on behalf of the UUA’s Pacific Southwest District (now part of the Pacific Western Region): serving on the Annual Meeting Planning Committee and the Women and Religion Committee, chairing the Leadership Development Committee, and serving as dean of the Leadership Training School. She also served on the UUMA Executive Committee, the Board of Ministerial Sisterhood of Unitarian Universalists, and the Board of Meadville Lombard Theological School.


Rev. Carolyn Price of the UU Church of Ventura, CA offered these lovely words in remembrance of Bets: “A pioneer for women in the ministry, who inspired six of us to become ministers, and counseled countless among us in her many years in the parish… She modeled for us what it is not only to live, but to die with intention, with beauty and courage, and most of all, with love.”


Rev. Melitta Haslund, daughter-in-law, hospital chaplain, and instructor writes, “Bets was an incredible gift in my life—and so many lives.  The grace with which she navigated life and her authenticity are deeply and entirely missed.”


Bets is survived by spouse Peter Haslund; children Elizabeth Gourley, Bill Gourley, the Rev. Melitta Haslund, and Christina Haslund; grandchildren Benjamin and Alexandra Haslund-Gourley, Amelie Stufflebeam, Nicolaus Haslund-Fitzgerald and Bryna Fitzgerald; sister Lynnie Wienecke and niece Amie Fanning.


In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Live Oak UU Congregation of Goleta, 820 North Fairview Avenue, Goleta, CA 93117.

A memorial service will take place at 2pm on Saturday, February 24, 2018 at the Live Oak UU Congregation of Goleta (address above).

Notes of condolence can be sent to Peter Haslund at 3224 Serena Ave, Carpinteria, CA 93013.

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In Loving Memory of Eugene W. Kreves (1921-2017)

Posted By Administration, Tuesday, January 9, 2018
Updated: Tuesday, January 9, 2018

The Rev. Eugene William Kreves died on December 11, 2017 at the age of 96.

Eugene was born on May 24, 1921 in Cleveland, OH to parents Mary and Joseph Kreves. In 1942 he married his beloved wife, Corinne Strong. They both attended Ohio Wesleyan University, where Eugene graduated in 1945 with a Bachelor of Arts in English. Eugene then earned his Bachelor of Divinity degree from Connecticut’s Hartford Theological Seminary in 1949.

Rev. Kreves was ordained as a Congregationalist minister on December 11, 1949, then received Fellowship with the American Unitarian Association on June 2, 1954 and with the Universalist Church of America on April 23, 1956. In early 1955, Eugene and Corinne were instrumental in founding the DuPage Unitarian Fellowship (now DuPage UU Church) in Naperville, IL, where Rev. Kreves was called as the congregation’s founding minister. He also simultaneously ministered to Illinois’s Aurora Unitarian Fellowship—another church that he and Corrine helped found. Eugene was renowned for his passionate preaching on behalf of liberalism and social justice, and both he and Corinne were dedicated servants of the DuPage congregation for over two decades. When Rev. Kreves retired in 1979, after 24 years of service, the church honored him as their Minister Emeritus. Post-retirement, Rev. Kreves served for two years as minister of the Third Unitarian Church of Chicago (1982 – 1983).

Outside of his ministry in DuPage, Eugene served on the Board of Directors of his local American Civil Liberties Union. He was also President of the DuPage Valley Peace Center. Rev. Kreves was also a proud additional signer of the second Humanist Manifesto (1973). And later he helped organize Arkansans for Peace, for which he served as Publicity Chair.

In his spare time, Eugene had a passion for home building and land development, especially for cooperative efforts. He was also an avid reader of non-fiction—especially about new developments in science—and was ever fascinated by music, art, and politics. In retirement Eugene authored a self-published book:The Hungry Fire: Poems Affirming the Strength of Our Humanity(2002). And he was a lifelong supporter of social causes and an advocate for civil rights, participating in numerous marches and protests; according to his daughter Joy, Eugene always “believed in listening to the underdog.”

At the dedication of the DuPage church’s new Kreves Hall in 1994, member Lois Schnizlein declared:

Gene Kreves devoted 24 years of sincere, unselfish service with dogged determination to build and keep a church in DuPage County with a free pulpit which stressed human values on subjects which were not at all popular in the decades of the 1940s and -50s. … Nearly 40 years later these topics are not so unpopular now, but because of Gene’s humanist beliefs and determination to “stand his ground” this church was firmly established as a beacon of enlightenment in DuPage County.

Eugene’s daughter Joy remembers her father for his “impish sense of humor.” He encouraged his children’s creative efforts with enthusiasm and a keen interest in what they meant to express with their art; Joy echoes Eugene’s belief that “making more ‘stuff’ is not moral, unless it is for some greater purpose.” Finally, she recalls that her father was a “nomad at heart,” exploring new frontiers both via travel (“but only if they were in warm climates!”) and via the pages of books.

He is survived by children Tim Kreves, Dawn Kreves, and Joy Kreves Yavelow; grandchildren Seth Kreves, Anthony Nagiel, Amy Nagiel, and Ivia Sky Yavelow; and great-grandchildren Leon Nagiel and Lily Nagiel. He was pre-deceased by wife Corinne.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Lakota People's Law Project and to Americans United for Separation of Church and State.

A private memorial service for family members will be held in the spring.

Notes of condolence can be sent to Joy Kreves Yavelow at 54 Montague Avenue, Ewing, NJ 08628.

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In Loving Memory of Homer "Jerry" Goddard III (1929-2017)

Posted By Administration, Tuesday, November 14, 2017

The Rev. Homer “Jerry” A. Goddard III died on October 15, 2017 at the age of 87.

Jerry was born on October 29, 1929 in Cincinnati, OH to parents Jeannette and Homer A. Goddard Jr., and grew up in a suburb of Pittsburgh, PA. He graduated in 1952 from Denison University with a Bachelor of Arts in economics, and in the following year he married his beloved wife Margaret “Peg” Goddard. After serving in the U.S. Army as an artillery officer, Jerry worked for the next 17 years as a sales engineer for the Aluminum Company of America. He became active at Pennsylvania’s Main Line Unitarian Church—serving as the congregation’s board president for two years—and began discerning a call toward the ministry. He and Peg moved their three children across the country so that Jerry could attend Berkeley, CA’s Starr King School for the Ministry, where Jerry earned his Master of Divinity in 1975.

Rev. Goddard was ordained on January 9, 1976 by the First Parish of Sudbury, MA, where he served as minister until 1985; during this ministry he discovered an ancestral connection to the early-1700s minister of First Parish, Israel Loring. Jerry was then called to serve the UU Society of Greater Springfield, MA for five years. In 1990 Rev. Goddard was called to the UU Fellowship of Poughkeepsie, NY. He ministered in Poughkeepsie until his retirement in 1996, at which time the congregation honored him as their Minister Emeritus. Finally, Jerry carried out interim ministries in New Zealand, England, Australia, South Africa, and the U.S. Virgin Islands.

Rev. Goddard also performed an array of service to the denomination. He sat on the board of Starr King School for the Ministry from 1973 to 1974, and was Alumni President from 1981 to 1982. Rev. Goddard served on the board of the UUA’s Joseph Priestly district from 1968 to 1972. He also held leadership positions within two chapters of the UU Ministers’ Association: board member and treasurer for Massachusetts Bay from 1976 to 1980, then board member and later president of Connecticut Valley (now part of the Clara Barton chapter) from 1986 to 1990. Rev. Goddard also chaired UU Ministers’ Day for the 1978 General Assembly in Boston. And he later served as a trainer for the Metro NY district’s professional sexual misconduct awareness workshops.

Throughout his life, Jerry was fiercely devoted to the causes of human rights and social justice. In the late 1960s he founded the drug counseling center Daemion House outside Philadelphia. He joined the March on Washington in 1963. Rev. Goddard was also an organizing member of the Religious Coalition for Reproductive Choice, and served on the boards of Planned Parenthood in Massachusetts and in Northern New England. In 1988 Rev. Goddard served as a plaintiff in the U.S. Supreme Court case Kendrick v. Bowen, arguing against the government’s biased support for anti-abortion, pro-abstinence religious denominations. He also served on the National Steering Committee of Americans United for Separation of Church and State from 1987 to 1990. Finally, Jerry was an activist for the American Civil Liberties Union since 1963, and joined its board in 2005.

In his spare time, Jerry loved skiing—both downhill and cross-country—as well as jogging, canoeing, and snorkeling. He also greatly enjoyed reading, perusing used bookstores, and collecting old religious books. Jerry was a scholar of western religions and a lecturer on Islam and Judaism. Later in life he offered lessons at the University of New Hampshire on local history and plate tectonics, and worked with his local immigrant community as an ESL teacher. He deeply loved traveling the country and the world with his family, most especially with “the love of his life” Peg; the two companions backpacked across the Middle East in their sixties and explored Southeast Asia in their seventies.

Reflecting on his denomination in 1990, Rev. Goddard shared this lovely vision:

I believe the liberal church is a community for the whole person. It is a place where we can find fellowship and friends, ethical values and inspiration; a place where we can find and give love and caring. It is a place where we can share ideas and be a part of the eternal quest for “truth.” … The liberal church also must be a witness in the community and the world for justice, peace, love and compassion. It must inspire people to live and work for a world in which life can be lived with dignity in freedom and without injustice everywhere.

He is survived by his wife of 64 years Margaret Goddard; children Linda Goddard (Spencer Amesbury), Kirk Goddard (Kathy), and Jan Goddard-Taylor (Mark Taylor); and grandchildren Will Amesbury, Elena Goddard-Amesbury, Lauren Withers, Eliza Goddard, and Isabella Goddard-Taylor.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Civil Liberties Unionand to Planned Parenthood.

A memorial service will take place at 11am on Saturday, November 18 at First Parish in Concord, 20 Lexington Rd, Concord, MA 01742, following which guests are invited to gather with the family in the Parish Hall.

Notes of condolence can be sent to Peggy Goddard at 100 Russet Ct Apt 305, Lincoln, MA 01773.

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In Loving Memory of Richard L. Allen (1924-2017)

Posted By Administration, Friday, November 10, 2017

Dr. Richard “Dick” Lovett Allen died on October 22, 2017 at the age of 93.


Dick was born on July 14, 1924 in Cleveland, OH to parents Marion Ream Allen and Clifford W. Allen, and grew up in Columbus. He served in the U.S. Army from 1943 until 1946, in which year he married Emma Lou (née Burgoon). Dick then earned two degrees in Ceramic Engineering from Ohio State University: a bachelor’s in 1948 and a master’s in 1949. He worked for 15 years as a production engineer and then as a sales engineer; but during that time Dick discerned his call toward ministry, and in 1964 he entered Harvard Divinity School. After the untimely passing of Emma Lou, Dick married his beloved wife Lois in 1967, in which year he also received his Bachelor of Sacred Theology from HDS. Finally Dick earned his Ph.D. from Berkeley’s Graduate Theological Union in 1971.


Rev. Allen was ordained on May 2, 1968 by the Palo Alto Unitarian Church (now the UU Church of Palo Alto), and he carried out his first parish ministry at the First Unitarian Church of Honolulu, HI from 1972 to 1980. In that year he was called to the First Unitarian Church of Oklahoma City, OK. Rev. Allen dedicatedly served the Oklahoma City church for 14 years, until his official retirement in 1994; the congregation honored Dick as their Minister Emeritus and Lois as Choir Director Emeritus, and named the church’s new courtyard in their honor. Rev. Allen then performed interim ministries at two California congregations: Throop UU Church in Pasadena (1994 – 1996) and the UU Church of the Monterey Peninsula in Carmel-by-the-Sea (1996 – 1997). Finally he served for a short time as the minister of Napa Valley UUs in Napa, CA (2000 – 2001).


In addition to his parish ministry, Rev. Allen performed much service to the denomination. He was the secretary of UU Advance from 1982 to 1984. Rev. Allen also served on the board of the Southwest UU Conference from 1983 to 1985, and in that year he was program chair for the Conference’s Summer Institute. He also served as president of the Southwest Chapter of the UU Ministers’ Association from 1989 to 1991. In 1994 Rev. Allen was a chaplain at the Institute for Religion in an Age of Science’s summer conference on Star Island, NH. And both he and Lois were active for many years and in several capacities with the UU Retired Ministers and Partners Association.


Outside his denominational work, Dick belonged to several community organizations. He sat on the boards of the Oklahoma Alliance for Children and of the Friends of the Library of Central Oklahoma. A pro-choice advocate, Rev. Allen twice served on his local Planned Parenthood boards—for Hawaii and for Central Oklahoma—as well as on the policy council of the Oklahoma Religious Counsel for Abortion Rights.


He self-published two books while serving in Oklahoma City: Loving a Kind of Light in 1985 and Deeper into the Cave in 1991. In his spare time, Dick enjoyed reading, watching films, visiting art museums, and engaging in conversation. 


Throughout his ministry, Rev. Allen was known for a warm spirit coupled with a keen intellect—an appreciation for life’s deep questions, which resist easy or black-and-white answers. Dick once mused: “On my tombstone, there could be my name, my dates, and the sentence, ‘It is more complicated than that.’”


He is survived by his wife of 50 years Lois Allen; children Bruce Klickstein, Laura Crowder, Robin Klickstein, and Joe Allen; grandchildren Crystal Allen, Maile Allen, Emily Hunt, Kristina Koberg, Cameron Ito, Grace Bancroft, and Joe Bancroft; six greatgrandchildren; and siblings Margaret Starbuck, John Allen, and Joseph Allen. He was predeceased by his first wife Emma Lou.


In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Ministerial Discretionary Fund of the UU Fellowship of San Luis Obispo, 2201 Lawton Ave., San Luis Obispo, CA, 93401; and to the UU Society for Ministerial Relief, c/o the Rev. Dr. David Hubner, 192 Boston Post Rd. #29, Sudbury, MA 01776.


A memorial service will take place at 2pm on Saturday, December 16 at the UU Fellowship of San Luis Obispo County, 2201 Lawton Ave, San Luis Obispo, CA 93401.


Notes of condolence can be sent to Lois Allen at 1691 Seabright Ave., Grover Beach, CA 93433.

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